When was the last time YOU were asked out on a date?
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When was the last time YOU were asked out on a date?
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Never
Literally never.
Um, never.
when I was 17 (i’m 37 now). She and I essentially jinx’ed each other on going to ask each other to go on a date, she got there slightly ahead of me.
February 32nd in the month of Smarch
Never. I am 34 years old.
Never but an NPC in a random video game once flirted with me.If a woman asked me out I would feel like she’s probably a succubus.
Never. My wife also expects me to arrange our dates.
Aside from boundary conditions (birth, death), few good things Just Happen to men. You have to _make_ it happen.
Never
Does being asked out as a joke, with her group of friends nearby to laugh, count?
Never
Never happened, but I’ve been asked by a girl to hang out before, but as friends.
F
My current girlfriend asked me out first. We matched on a dating site and I sent her a message about a section of her bio, she said, “it’s a long story, how about I tell you over a drink?”
It was honestly so refreshing
Never in my 22 years of life.
I’ve been asked out on a date once or twice. The woman who asked was reasonably sure I’d say yes though, because I was already married to her.
Not a single time in my life
Never. I have had women hint at it, but I’ve never been directly asked out on a date.
What’s a date
On a cold approach….. a couple times in highschool. A girl wanted me to go to her prom, but they didn’t allow out of district students so it went nowhere.
Another girl I met on the city bus. She didn’t have a winter coat so I gave her one I had laying around. She tried to fuck me a few times, but I was pretty oblivious, still religious, and had never even been on a date before. Then her phone broke and we lost touch.
Otherwise….nah. unless it was someone I met through tinder, but I was still the one doing all the legwork and planning. And it’s not like they gave a shit about me as a human being.
Hold up…women do that???
Woman here: I never realized how infrequently guys get asked out. I learn so much reading this sub.
When I was first dating my boyfriend we happened to be in the same area, so I asked him if he wanted to meet me for a beer. He thought I was going to break up with him- now I understand why.
To clarify- I didn’t want to break up, I just wanted beer. We are still together.
Yesterday it was weird she just randomly asked me out and I barely know her haha
15 years ago. She didn’t mean it. She was distracting me while her friends shoplifted.
Never lol
Literally never. Like so much never that I’ve never even been in danger of thinking it might happen.
4 years ago. She’s sitting right next to me rn
I’ve had my girlfriend ask “hey can we go to this restaurant?” at points, but she’s never planned a full date. Albeit, we’ve been together for only 8 months, but it’s never happened with another girlfriend either.
I’ve also never had a girl ask me out in general.
January. She flaked on me to date her neighbour but still wanted to date me “as a friend”. Lol noped out of that one 😅
Heh, thanks for the laughs.
Lol
never.
Nope, not in my universe
A long **long** time ago, in a city far, far away…
1988 it’s been a long time
Never, and I’ve been on a lot of dates. If men took the same level of initiative that women did, humans would be extinct by now.
Reading all this has me bummed
My wife asks me out every once in a while when she can tell I am in a funk. It’s cute, I love her. Before her, literally never.