The cliche that all men run off with their young, beautiful secretary’s has mainstreamed into every corner of every street. The availability of temptation has tripled × 10,000 more since your parents were courting. ( speaking of ages between 20 to 60 yr olds in todays time) . When you know a woman is flirting , coming on to , & showing you she’s interested in you , what truly stops you from the temptation when you are currently involved in a committed relationship.?