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Loads, dumping this one girl, not killing someone before they killed themself, not giving it all in education and so much more. But itâs to late now, you can only changed the future.
I made a friend off of Bumble BBF or whatever itâs called and now he kind of wants to hang out a little too often. We matched about a month ago but only hung out for the first time a few days ago. I was kind of nervous because itâs such an untraditional way to make a friend but it was pretty natural (we played tennis). Having said that, heâs asked me to play tennis with him twice now in the past 4 days. I mean, I got friends of my own so Iâm not in a rush to hang out with somebody so Iâm hoping he isnât going to constantly want to hang out.
Also for anyone wondering why I would use that bumble feature if I already have friends, I wanted to make more friends that arenât similar to my personal group of friends.
Not having the confidence to date around more before I met my current girlfriend. I love her so much, but Jesus do I think a lot about missed opportunities and how I should have enjoyed playing the field while I could. Now I’m 28 and we are beginning to settle down together and it’s always been something I feel I haven’t properly experienced. That said, if I had I probably wouldn’t have met my girlfriend, so there’s that.
Fucking up my relationship with my girlfriend by lying and not fixing certain stuff on time. I love her to death, she is the one for me, but goddammit you know whatâs the worse? I donât know if im the one for her… I admit my mistakes, but somehow my life will show its rear end somehow. I do believe in the saying, if itâs worth it, fight for it.
Sitting in a pool of self pity which made me refuse to put myself out there and date. I also regret reading into Reddit’s rabbit hole – where people post self-deprecating and borderline incel like viewpoints.
I have only two regrets. 1. Going to university straight after school 2. Not getting treatment for social anxiety in my teens. I sometimes wonder what my life would be like now if those were different.
I regret ever presuming my lonely inward nature was just a phase.
lol nope
Had I known earlier in my life how easy it would be for me to retreat further inside, I wouldâve gone to enormous lengths to prevent doing so in the first place.
That being said, I can regret how isolated Iâve become without resenting a much younger version of me who embarked on this path before I could warn him off it: he didnât know, and – believe me – he had a lot of reasons at the time for downsizing his social circles.
I regret every major choice Iâve ever made not because they were necessarily the wrong choices at the time but because they were essentially all the same: run away.
i put all of my eggs into one basket and when that temporarily failed, i was fucked. i had no real relationships to fall back on, i was forced to work at jobs where i was overqualified, and in general, i felt as if i wasn’t on the same level as other people my age.
Letting ‘the one’ go… I was so focused on working hard and trying to earn decent money to provide for her, did so much for her but wish I did so much more, I regret it everyday but there’s isn’t anything I can do anymore…. so now I feel absolutely shit and feels like an avalanche holding my neck and pulling me down…. You know what itâs like getting up every morning feeling hopeless? Feeling like the love of your life is will wake up with the wrong man? But at the same time, hoping that she still finds happiness⊠even if itâs never gonna be with you?
Being an abusive shit earlier in my life.
Letting âthe oneâ get away and not realizing it until later in life.
Not developing self-confidence and relying on self-deprecation for longer than I should have.
Eating that one piece of tofu 10 minutes ago
Loads, dumping this one girl, not killing someone before they killed themself, not giving it all in education and so much more. But itâs to late now, you can only changed the future.
High School
A lot of little things mostly. Easy to pick it apart with hindsight, but at the time they seemed like fine choices.
Ignoring red flags
Going to college for a year.
Not fixing my other car (one is in the shop) sooner so I didn’t have to pay $15 to go 10 minutes to work.
I made a friend off of Bumble BBF or whatever itâs called and now he kind of wants to hang out a little too often. We matched about a month ago but only hung out for the first time a few days ago. I was kind of nervous because itâs such an untraditional way to make a friend but it was pretty natural (we played tennis). Having said that, heâs asked me to play tennis with him twice now in the past 4 days. I mean, I got friends of my own so Iâm not in a rush to hang out with somebody so Iâm hoping he isnât going to constantly want to hang out.
Also for anyone wondering why I would use that bumble feature if I already have friends, I wanted to make more friends that arenât similar to my personal group of friends.
1) Not having kids
2) being the cause of the look of pain on someone else’s face.
There are plenty of other things I’d do differently if I had it to do over, but those two are in a class by themselves in terms of regret.
Not having the confidence to date around more before I met my current girlfriend. I love her so much, but Jesus do I think a lot about missed opportunities and how I should have enjoyed playing the field while I could. Now I’m 28 and we are beginning to settle down together and it’s always been something I feel I haven’t properly experienced. That said, if I had I probably wouldn’t have met my girlfriend, so there’s that.
Starting smoking tobacco.
Letting anxiety dominate my life for a fairly long time when I was younger.
Fucking up my relationship with my girlfriend by lying and not fixing certain stuff on time. I love her to death, she is the one for me, but goddammit you know whatâs the worse? I donât know if im the one for her… I admit my mistakes, but somehow my life will show its rear end somehow. I do believe in the saying, if itâs worth it, fight for it.
Sitting in a pool of self pity which made me refuse to put myself out there and date. I also regret reading into Reddit’s rabbit hole – where people post self-deprecating and borderline incel like viewpoints.
I also regret being an overall cunt.
Being an ass, staying with person who offered nothing but words, sending angry messages to my “ex” and also eating a lot of pizzas last year
AbsoLUTEly nothing.
Not that I regret anything but I still try my best to not be in a situation that is regrettable. Make sense?ish
I have only two regrets. 1. Going to university straight after school 2. Not getting treatment for social anxiety in my teens. I sometimes wonder what my life would be like now if those were different.
I regret not dating in middle school. I didn’t know back then that it would be the last time someone would like me.
I regret ever presuming my lonely inward nature was just a phase.
lol nope
Had I known earlier in my life how easy it would be for me to retreat further inside, I wouldâve gone to enormous lengths to prevent doing so in the first place.
That being said, I can regret how isolated Iâve become without resenting a much younger version of me who embarked on this path before I could warn him off it: he didnât know, and – believe me – he had a lot of reasons at the time for downsizing his social circles.
I regret every major choice Iâve ever made not because they were necessarily the wrong choices at the time but because they were essentially all the same: run away.
i put all of my eggs into one basket and when that temporarily failed, i was fucked. i had no real relationships to fall back on, i was forced to work at jobs where i was overqualified, and in general, i felt as if i wasn’t on the same level as other people my age.
Not asking my crush out almost five years ago
Not coming out sooner than I did
Random embarrassing things from my childhood that keep me up at night.
Letting ‘the one’ go… I was so focused on working hard and trying to earn decent money to provide for her, did so much for her but wish I did so much more, I regret it everyday but there’s isn’t anything I can do anymore…. so now I feel absolutely shit and feels like an avalanche holding my neck and pulling me down…. You know what itâs like getting up every morning feeling hopeless? Feeling like the love of your life is will wake up with the wrong man? But at the same time, hoping that she still finds happiness⊠even if itâs never gonna be with you?