So someone I was in love with passed away almost 2 years ago and I’ve never been to see the grave, I barely got myself to go to the funeral.
The anniversary is coming up in a couple weeks and my best friend told me it’s time to stop running. I need to face the truth and reality, the person is dead and gone and I need to grieve.
My parents were abusive and alcoholic so I grew up never talking about anything as always hiding my feelings/emotions.
My best friend and I are going to see the grave (in another city so %%%% COVID) in a few weeks and I realized I’ve never been to a cemetery/graveyard before.
What do I do when I get there ? Am I supposed to bring flowers ? Is it inappropriate to bring her favourite alcohol and leave it there ?
What are supposed to do or what do you do when you visits someone’s grave ?
My parents never talked about this stuff and we’re not close at all so I never by and that father figure to explain things like this to me.