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Socially anxious/awkward men of reddit, what are some lifestyle changes that you’ve made to have an *active* dating life?

Socially anxious/awkward men of reddit, what are some lifestyle changes that you’ve made to have an *active* dating life?


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  1. When I met my now wife I had never asked s girl out before. I missed a couple good opportunities and then almost lost the chance to ever get another one because she had left the country. Anyway I was sitting there thinking “bite the fucking bullet now bud or you’re going to regret it”

    One good solution would be to just get tired of missing out on opportunities. The worst that can happen is you knock on doors and they remain closed. The best thing is new doors will open. The alternative is to let life pass you by.

  2. You need to work on numbing the socially anxious part first, the rest comes after that.

    I got a job in sales, I made money off commissions so if I wanted to eat I had to talk to people.

    There are lots of other options. Look into something like Toastmasters. It is basically a club that teaches/practices public speaking.

    Look for local Improv classes that are open to new people.

    If you are any good at singing there are always groups out there looking for new people.

    Basically any activity that is going to get you out there and force you to interact with other people.

    Once you are immersed in group situations one on one situations become much easier.

    Dating is just shooting your shot. Step 1 of that is being able to talk to other human beings.

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