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Men who have ever signed up for pickup artist/seduction classes, how did that turn out?

I’m not considering or endorsing these classes in any way, just genuinely curious what the experience was like. I would not encourage anyone to join those.

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  1. I have not, but I have read some on my spare time for curiosity. Their primary tenet is to approach. Approaching creates opportunity. 99% of approaches end in failure, but if you stick to it you will eventually get laid no matter what you look like.

    That $2000 dollars, please. I have PayPal.

  2. So, my roomie bought a book on it. From what I can tell, it can be helpful. There’s a lot of pseudo-science to it, and a bit of misogyny. But, in total I think the biggest thing it did was just force him to be exposed to situations he was previously uncomfortable with. Over time he became more comfortable with them and saw improvement.

  3. Two-three years ago I had a close friend insisting that I should watch some red-pill videos here and there and then go out with him and talk to some girls.

    The videos were really disturbing at first. They say the red-pill is a tough pill to swallow at first, but it’s not true. There are many artificial conversations and ways of talking that makes interactions uncomfortable.

    Anyway, my virgin 21-22 year old ass started watching the videos and cringely talking to girls at nights. I’d say half of the interactions were uncomfortable and plain rejections, but some were lots of fun, even when being very artificial and pushy.

    I made out with some girls in a one year span which was an improvement, but the chase always felt bad when seeking female attraction.

    I don’t regret the experience, but it was a lots of work and mental effort to talk to girls for the results (good and fun results though) that it was yielding.

    Now it has been over two-three years of that. I have not had even a single flirty spicy conversation face to face with a girl/woman in more than a year. I don’t want to stress or work so hard for somewhat good interactions, its too much work. At the same time, I struggle to find a way to connect and talk to girls my age.

    Yes, we have to wait until Corona is over. But I doubt just improving my physical shape will help at all once I can talk to girls. I wont download Tinder because I wont depress myself and I don’t know what to do in this regard.

    I am 25 and have lots of sexual interests that are not satisfied but I don’t know what to do. Girls and women in general seem still unaccesible to me, and from my perspective they always seem not interested in anything romantic.

  4. You’re much better off improving yourself, hitting your passion hard and increasing your social network/skills.

    Interest from women will be a side effect.

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