To break the first lance, here is my “why”:
I want to be a pilar, not a load. Even if I’m %%%%ed inside I don’t want to be a load for others, even knowing that I wouldn’t be I would feel like a load and I just don’t want to.
​[Repost] Sorry, I forgot about a part on the tittle and I couldn’t edit it so I reposted it again. My apologies.
Edit: Well, this realed up a bit. For the record, I’m refering as someone genuinely asking how someone is, not being a part of an standard greeting.