If you found out you where sleeping with a married woman, would you inform that person’s partner or won’t say anything since it is not your problem ?
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If you found out you where sleeping with a married woman, would you inform that person’s partner or won’t say anything since it is not your problem ?
My friend’s girlfriend tried sleeping with me while I was drunk, I ratted her out. I’m the worst person she could’ve picked, as someone who’s been cheated on I have a special hate for anyone who cheats and will go out of my way to inform their partner if I ever find out.
I would want to be told, so I would probably tell.
I’d leave a note taped under the toilet seat, where only he’d see it when he lifts the seat.
I’d want to know if my wife was cheating.
Well first I’d like to think that I would immediately end things with her as soon as I found out. After I probably wouldn’t say anything just get myself out. If I were to say anything I would probably do it anonymously and with some proof. Who knows how that man is going to react. Last thing I would want is to get into a fight with a guy I’m trying to help or have someone come try and take my life
I’d break it off and tell him. He has the right to know his wife is cheating.
I would get confused and fuck her husband
Been there.
I told her she had 2 weeks to tell him before I would. According to his Facebook, she told him about a week and a half later.
I’d let the spouse know and then I’d have to take a long shower because I’d feel filthy.
Inform. Absolutely.
When this very thing happened to me I was not in a position to tell as I had never been to her house and in fact didn’t even know where she lived. (Now, years later I would see the red flags, but back then I was clueless.) Anyway, I just ghosted the shit outta her and never looked back. Now I would find a way to tell him, but not in person.
Not my place or my problem. And certainly not interested in the drama. I’d let it go.
I might break it off, but it’s not my place to interfere in other peoples relationships. I could just as easily do more harm than good even if I had all the right intentions.
The way I see it is that you should always tell the spouse.
If you are the type of person who thinks it’s not your problem, then don’t get upset when you end up getting cheated on one day
Would I cause a shit ton of drama and put a target on my back for the husband???
No, no I wouldn’t do that.
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I would absolutely tell myself that I’m fucking my wife. I’d probably keep doing it though, because that’s the kind of guy I am.
Oh, believe me! Her partner already knows and it is FINE by him! Booyah!
‘Hey, I’m fucking your wife!’
Remember when you were taught that ‘honesty is the best policy’? Yeah, that’s bollocks.
i’d tell if the opportunity came up, but i wouldn’t go out and seek it.
Not my business. But I’d continue to smash
Well if you have any empathy you would end this and tell the persons partner. If you’re weak and lacking morals then sure pretend like nothing wrong is happening.
I wouldn’t tell the husband. I would have a conversation with the wife to find out why she was cheating and hopefully learn something about why women cheat, hopefully to avoid it happening to me. My first guess would be that it isn’t because she wants to have sex more. After all, if your wife just told you one day that she would like to have sex with you more often, wouldn’t you be thinking “YES!!!!!!” and do whatever she wants. I’d feel bad about the affair and start looking for another female woman.
Well if I would not sleep with that person again, but if I don’t know their partner, I would say nothing, because I don’t want to get dragged into the shitshow
I would not. It could trigger a violent reaction. This woman could be in danger. She may be a cheating liar but that doesn’t mean she deserve a beating.
If I found out I was sleeping with a married man I would definitely inform the spouse. However I wouldn’t end up in such a scenario in the first place.
Any more context you can give us, or is this purely hypothetical?
It’s not your place to tell him and you’re not going to be there long term to deal with the consequences. What I mean is, you’re not her new forever and he could beat the shit out of her causing permanent life altering changes. You could be nothing more to her than a drunk mistake and you’ll change her life forever. Mind your business, do better getting info on her background first next time and make different decisions if something you did bothers you.
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I’d cut it off but not tell them. Not a good idea in general.
People need compassion, not punishment. Would it change things, yeah, sure. Sometimes it’s best to just shut the fuck up and let things play out.
Why are kids today such fucking tattletales? What do I care if she’s cheating? She’s not cheating on me. She didn’t break a promise to me. Her marriage is her problem.
Article 22 Section 5 of the bro code
Shoot a video of the act and send it to the husband “lol your wife is a thotty bruh! 🤣”