I know men often feel neglected when it comes to getting complimented. I see lots of men I would happily attempt to flirt with but, I assume that no man is single and that’s why I refrain from flirting. Would you shut it down immediately if you are attached, or just take the compliment and leave?
listen. a compliment sticks with us for years. i may not be attracted to you after a compliment but the once in awhile i get one that shit makes me smile for weeks.
By immediately listing all the reasons it wasn’t flirtatious in my head then getting depressed for even wasting the thought considering it.
Did one of your girlfriend’s put you up to this?
I would probably be confused and cautious.
Personally i think I’d just thank you if i was single or not, I’m trying to not think that any compliment means a girl is into me.
Honest answer: i probably wouldn’t realize the intent lol.
Completely miss the flirtatious way but enjoy the compliment for the next decade.
Shit myself because that has never happened
I would appreciate the compliment, tell her thank you and be on my way.
Is the user name a nod to the great Motley Crue?
I would be very suspicious.
I tend to be confused and taken aback.
I’d end up with a bit of pre-cum dribble and have to conceal the wet spot.
Jizz my pants
It depends if I liked the woman or not. If a woman I like is flirting with me, I’ll flirt back.
If you don’t go further then no problem, I’d love it. But I highly disagree with your belief that they are all taken lmao
It feels great every time, I don’t consider myself an ugly guy by any means but men as a whole are not usually complemented physically unless you are just 10 out of 10 lol
If I’m single I flirt back. If I’m taken I say thank you and maybe have a good one, or compliment her earrings or something polite but not flirty.
Even if I were in a relationship at the time, I’d have to have a very compelling reason to be rude to a woman who flirted with me. Even then, I would have no compulsion to be cruel.
I still remember about 2 years ago when one night during midnight shift, a customer smiled and said “see you around suga ;)”
She also called me darling that night.
By completely missing the hint.
I’d think “OK. What do you want?”
I’d say thank you and flirt back
It would obviously depend on who this woman is. At the very least I would be extremely flattered.
I’d take the compliment and leave, happily. The only reason I’d shut it down is if it is really graphic.
Suspicious
I’d find her some glasses; the poor woman clearly couldn’t see. Or else I’d be concerned for her standards.
That would be pretty cool, but my advice is don’t be flirtatious unless you’re comfortable with some level of reciprocation.
It’s not guaranteed you’ll get it, but it will seem like a message that flirtation is appropriate for the situation
I would just assume I’m in an impromptu Sex and the City episode
I’d thank her and go about my day.
3 years later I would smack my forehead and realize she was flirting. I’d then spend the remainder of my life randomly remembering that and always feeling silly for not catching on at the time.
This question gets asked on here literally everyday lol, the answer should go in the “about” section of this sub
I’ve been single for way too long, so I would be at least flattered, if not ecstatic. I might even giggle a little and say “Oh, STAHP!” whilst waving my hand…
For last decade I have received compliments only from wives of my friends and the like in social settings. So I would be hard pressed to see it as something flirtacious and would just see it as if you were paying your social dues when you don’t have to… Mildly confusing in the way of “did I forget who this lady is? Should I have greeted her first and remember her name?”