How to know if it’s time to let go
Hey guys. Starting out, I met the girl of my dreams coming up on 2 years. We instantly hit it off, and I had never felt that way about someone in a long time. After years of being cheated on, and treated as a joke, I finally found someone who truly loved me. She was so determined in everything she did. Shes so beautiful, and I honestly couldn’t imagine myself without her. Recently though, we’ve been getting into more and more arguments over little stuff, but also some bigger things. I’ve noticed she’s becoming less motivated with her academics, she’s putting less effort into a lot of things. I still feel the love and such, but in ways I can’t help but to feel like something isn’t right with us.
She never used to get irritated with me, even up to us being together for a year, but she’s kinda changed. I rarely truly get the feeling that she loves me anymore.
Obviously as the relationship moves on, the more serious tones set in, and lots of times you get over the lovey dovey aspect. The thing is I truly can’t imagine going on without her. The only troubling thing is I truly can’t tell if that’s because I’ve been with her for so long and have made such amazing memories, or if it’s my heart telling me something isn’t right. I’m trying to decide if I should talk to her, but I don’t know if I’m ready for what might happen.