How do you flirt with a girl without being weird?

How do you flirt with a girl without being weird?

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  1. What makes you think you are coming across as weird? Is it your actions/behavior around her? Is it what you say to it and/or how you say it?

    Is it just ONE girl you are trying to flirt with who thinks you are weird, yet other girls you have flirted with have not thought were being weird? If it’s the first one and she doesn’t seem to like you, just move on. You’re just not going to be able to convince her you are not weird. She’s already made her mind up.

  2. If she has done something like get her nails or hair done, compliment her. If you see her regularly, compliment her for something maybe no one else noticed she did like a new hair color, or notice some knickknack she bought.

  3. Be confident in who you are, don’t force anything, don’t try to do things you aren’t completely comfortable with, if you do stumble own up to it and be in the moment. Weird is just another way to say that you’re not being human.

  4. Just flirt like yourself and don’t try to think in things like “am i being weird?” mid conversation because if you do, you’ll probably come out as weird.

    Just look a lot in the eyes and learn how to read a person, that’s all that it takes.

  5. Everybody has their own quirks and that what makes us all special.Unless you’re being an asshole,Just because you’re being your own-self and making an effort to communicate with that people makes the other think that you’re weird, Well , Then that person is not worth your effort.

  6. Just be clear with your intentions man. You can only truly know with experience. You will be weird, you will be awkward, but thats ok because its part of life and process. No one is perfect at their first go, and guys mess it up even when they are heavily experienced.

    Go out there, try something that you think gets your point across (I like being direct), and then if it fails, learn from it, ask yourself what did I do wrong, what could I have done better. If it succeeds, ask yourself, what did I do right, what did I do differently that made me get what I want?

    Girls don’t expect you to be perfect, but they do need to understand what you are trying to say, so be clear with your intentions, get your point across, and things may or may not work out.

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