Hello, I just graduated college and am working in a major city in the US. I had a couple of friends in college but they all moved to different places. I’m married and live with my wife. Even though I love my wife and love spending time with her, I feel like I am in need of good friends to care about, and who care about me. As an early adult, I have no idea how to look for them. I read everywhere that they are hard to come the older you get.
I have a lot of friends on social media but it just feels like I am the one who tries to get in touch with them. It doesn’t feel like mutual friendship. We would hang out if I reach out to them. Tried to join chess club, given that’s one of my hobbies but people would only want to hang during chess club times and not otherwise. Is it too late? Should I just be content being by myself and my wife and not care about looking for better friends?
Thanks and stay safe.