There’s five couples and we hangout virtually every weekend because of covid. One of them called me up yesterday asking how to open a package of weed I dropped off weeks ago and I found out they were all hanging out at a lake house rental for the week without me and my wife. They all know time and money wouldn’t have been an issue and to rub salt into the wound, one them posted on Facebook what an amazing time it was with a photo of them all wearing specific funny tshirts that a month ago I suggested we all wear for fun once we could hang together in person (they liked the shirt I designed so I suggested we all do the same). Clearly they planned this for a while but kept us in the dark.
It feels awful and I don’t know what to think. Is it silly to feel upset about this or am I justified in feeling a bit used and unwanted?
Edited to add: Whoa, this blew up. A few things – the weed thing just started recently and everyone in the group has kids/babies and brought them on the trip. I will be asking straight up what happened to the one who organized it.