im 20 and shes 19
my s/o asked me if what i would do if one of the girls i used to go out with asked me to find boarding houses. i told her that i wouldnt come and let one of my friends accompany her. because i thought that it was rude of me to just reject her.
my s/o told me why do i still care about her when we’re already dating. i told her that my answer didnt imply that i still cared for her. i made a mistake of telling her that it wasnt 100% honest and true because it seemed like i told her the wrong answer. this was me, uncosciously, trying to make excuses for my answer.
it was an out of the blue question thats why i didnt have enough time to think of a better-thought answer. apparently, having not enough time to answer was a lame excuse.
edit. when i said it wasnt an honest answer. it was me trying to make excuses to save myself from my answer.