First, I’m a girl. For some reason that means I became really accustomed to not initiating ohhh, but my boyfriend recently made a comment that I don’t initiate, which clearly means it’s an issue. We both also want to have more ohhh than we already are, but I think he is tired of always getting it going. I don’t really know how to properly initiate ohhh without being overly aggressive about it. Also, it’s happened before where I try (probably poorly), and he isn’t into it, so then I get hurt which makes me less inclined to try. So how do I get better at it and also not taking it personally if he isn’t in the mood?