I’ve asked some of my friends and acquaintances for feedback.
They all said I’m nice, have a great smile etc.
But the words “timid”, “uncomfortable”, and “bland” came up over and over again (ouch).
Do you think I’m correct in guessing that these adjectives are basically synonyms for low confidence?
I’d like to retain my niceness and trustworthiness, but I’d also like to boost my “fire”, so to speak.
I’m considering taking martial arts classes. It seems like the right mix of nerdiness and adrenaline.
Do you have any other suggestions?