My GF and I are both seniors in HS. We both have consumed alcohol before, but she’s been to a few more actual parties and has been to a couple more recently. One of these was a college party with a friend down at the college she plans to attend this fall. I don’t know why I feel this way but I just get scared about the whole idea of college parties. I hear stories all the time and see stuff about how out of hand they get, especially at colleges (her friend is in a sorority as well) and I 1) want her to be safe and 2) don’t want her to get taken advantage of by a college dude. I know she wouldn’t cheat on me, but if alcohol is involved, then really anything is possible, especially if it involves a dude who wants her. I guess I’m just wondering how to deal with these feelings as a man and learn to not worry so much.