Edit: I use the word obsessed as hyperbole sorry for the confusion. I’m honestly just curious why so many guys are so down to take part
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Are straight guys as obsessed with threesomes as the media makes it seem? If so why?
I’d hate to disappoint 2 people in one go.
I was only 2 ppl away from a threeway last night
Spoiler alert, usually someone ends up crying.
As a *curiosity*, sure. I’d say those that have done it overwhelmingly consider it overrated though.
Cant speak for all straight dudes but personally, I’m not.
I have always seen the 3-way as instant death to a relationship. Intimacy is so underrated. Plus the thought of disappointing two people in one night is real. Fantasy is never found in real life, that’s why it’s called fantasy. Also, porn is bad for you, find a real person, make your own, but without the cameras.
Nothing in real life is as it is represented in the media.
Threesome? Are you kidding me?
Wait you damn turn girl, I got plenty of time to disappoint you one by one.
Zero desire for one
Ending up in a relationship with a girl who isn’t going to be threatned by the idea of you having sex with another girl is pretty rare. Having the game to convince two complete strangers to agree to a theesome is even rarer. I did it once cuz the option was available. It was just sex with two people, not really the drooling eye popping religious rapture that porn or movies make it out to be.
I have enough difficulty and pressure on me figuring out how to please one woman. Doubling the number of women just doubles the hassle. Personally, I’d rather have really really good sex with a girl I’m in a relationship with who I’ve had lots of time with figuring out how to really get us both going that just generic great value sex with two people at once.
I think that’s right up there with all guys are deeply turned on and in to lesbian porn. No.
Tried it twice, wasn’t fun either time. I worry that my gf will suggest it cause I don’t want it.
Having multiple women (or whatever) lust after you is one of those idle fantasies.
But at some point when you’ve been through relationships you realize just how much of a commitment it is to be with one person, and it really loses its appeal. Just like most fantasies.
For me, only as a plot resource to spice up some way of porn. I have no interest for such thing IRL (FFS, I didn’t get to do it with a single girl yet)
I like the idea of one but imma be honest don’t think can handle that.
As a straight male I’m all for it. Mfm, ffm, I don’t care. I wanna fuck.
I’m pretty sure threesomes are not exclusively a straight male fantasy. An overwhelming lot of women also have the fantasy of getting fucked by two guys…
A threesome for me has always been just that: a fantasy.
I don’t mean me and my SO finding some person to agree to a threesome and then we have awkward sex in my apartment, there would be so much to be desired for everyone involved.
Nah, if I’m gonna be in a threesome it’s gotta be in an exotic country in the pent house of some mob boss’s five star hotel, because me and the boss go way back and he’s doing me a solid.
My partners would be absolute sex goddesses, draped in the sexiest of erotic clothing with only the desire to rip it off and get down to business. I, too, would be a sex God, primed and ready to satisfy anyone and anything.
But this isn’t an obsession, just a fantasy. It’s fun to think about sometimes as a “what if” but I don’t think most people obsess over making a threesome happen.
I‘d be like Ross in Friends, cowering in the corner.
Tried it once. Wasn’t fun. Wouldn’t do it again.
If a man is truly obsessed with a threesome, he’s not in a relationship or he isn’t thinking it through all the way. There are too many things that can go wrong with a couple inviting in a third.
not me, others might be tho.
Im more obsessed with a twosome, but we all want what we don’t have so yeah.
Some are curious sure, but not really interested as a whole.
Personally, no. Not that I wouldnt accept in a perfect scenario, but like others have said, it doesnt end up well usually. Been in one that blew up before it started, pretty much mutually and heard of 2-3 others that just went bad very quickly.
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Best (and worst) when nobody really knows the others and its all a 70’s free love scenario.
Still someone is usually the 3rd wheel and gets neglected.
Nah.
Fun to watch but idk if I’d ever want to actually do it
I’m not, no. Wife and I both like the idea, but neither of us are rushing to absolutely make it happen.
The media?
I have never seen a CNBC story of threesomes and the stock market
I certainly would have given it a go if the occassion arose but it’s not something I ever really tried to make happen or anything.
Eh not really
Pass…no interest.
Is it 2 chicks doing whatever you want until you’re done? Because that’s pretty self explanatory. You get a rimjob and a bj at the same time. You get any combo of facesitting and cowgirl/bj, double bj, even the sandwich spooning while you recover for round 2 is the shit.
I dunno man. I think that’s just stuff media or porn sites blow out of proportion. Do we think about it? Yeah, but for the most part we only think about it when we see it or if its brought up in conversation. At least for myself.
I usually see a girl and think “i wonder what kind of underwear are has on, why isn’t it on the floor of my kitchen?”
I don’t think “man I’d love to have sex for three minutes with her and her friend!”
Just sayin
I’ve had both MMF and FFM threesomes, as well as MMFF swinging. All were pretty awesome, but certainly an emotional tightrope was walked.
Dating bi-exploratory girls helped, and I’ve flirted with the edges of poly communities too.
I enjoy the rotating aspect of people’s attentions. One moment I am in heaven, rim job and bj at the same time, the next I’m fucking a girl while she goes down on another, bodies writhe about and we’re now both focusing on the other girl.
You need the three to be as I to each other as possible, not just your partner letting you hook up with someone else in front of them, of course that is going to be a disaster.
The best combo I ever had was a partner who just ‘knew’ my type and got a kick out of trying to pull them. That made for many an adventure we were both getting a kick from.
We were young and I was an idiot to let her go.
It’s a nice fantasy but I doubt the reality would live up to it.
Obsessed? No. Would it be cool to have one? Potentially
Any combo is cool with me. The other person just has to be sexy and ready for fun. Everyone getting off and leaving happy.